I’ve decided to start this blog because my friends are always telling me I need to write a book about my experiences. I’m starting this blog not because I feel my life is so interesting but with the hope that others can relate to my stories and my struggles with my new Polyamorous life style.
I was in a monogomous marriage for 20 years. Unfortunately, it was to a very narcissistic man. When that marriage was at the end of its rope I met this amazing man who opened my eyes as to what it really felt like to be loved and treated with respect. Well, that’s when I finally divorced and became a free woman. Yes, this amazing man who opened my eyes is married and has 2 beautiful children. Most people (like my ex husband) would think I divorced to be with this amazing man but that is not the case. He already has a family who he loves and takes care of. Then there is me, we are best friends and lovers. He is my significant other and the only intimate relationship in my life since I’ve been divorce.
So that is why my site name is Polymonogomous. I’m in a polyamorous relationship but I’m monogomous to this man. Of course it’s never that simple. This is only the beginning of this wonderful, complicated, confusing and emotional relationship I’m in right now.